Okay I'm getting messages, but don't now how to read w/o emotion.
For the 2 weeks after the bomb we still slept in the same bed and acted like normal (for the kids). One night I got too close and got the "What are you doing?" meaning "What the hell do you think you're doing!" So I've backed off.

Now coach advised as part of change, look good and wear cologne which is "unexpected" for me. Friday night we went to a HS football game, D16 is a flag twirler in band, and really enjoyed it with other friends. But W decided that night to sleep on the couch. Last night she brought S11 to my room to sleep and she slept in his bed alone.

Should I quit the cologne and looking good? What is she trying to say to me?

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."