Crushednstuck, thank you, he's never been a talker, so actions are what I have been going on, but now that he's opening up, I suppose you are right to take evrything with a pinch of salt...
Happy, thank u for posting You are right i think. I have come a very long way from where I started. Before i was a VERY emotional little pisces. I would cry if someone looked at me funny LOL. When I found out about other women being involved I felt strangly numb and string about it. Wheras had it been a year ago, I would have been curled up in a ball wailing. So thats improvment at least.
But yes, to be completely non-reactant (is that even a word?), that would be complete detachment. Need to be patient knowing I'll get there I suppose. But finding out about these dates has helped tremendously in feeling more detached...
Thank you Happy, I value your opinions very much Very appreciative
You are right i think. I have come a very long way from where I started. Before i was a VERY emotional little pisces. I would cry if someone looked at me funny LOL. When I found out about other women being involved I felt strangly numb and string about it. Wheras had it been a year ago, I would have been curled up in a ball wailing. So thats improvment at least.