However... I don't know if I am experiencing some type of next stop in the grieving process but... I have been thinking the past couple of days how I would like to ask for forgiveness for my part in the breakdown of the marriage. I am probably best at letter writing as a means to get this across, not sure. I am wondering if there is ever an OK time to do this. I don't even want an actual answer from him, I am not pursuing but I realize it would likely be viewed this way. I really just want to get across how deeply sorry I am for not being there emotionally or physically for the past few years. When I was physically there, my frustration with the lack of intimacy that was missing usually came out in anger.
Is there a 'right' time or way to do this?
(Formerly blgp) Me-35 H-33 Married 4 yrs Together 9 yrs "Bomb" 8/1/10 Separated 8/6/10 D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11
"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."
