Thanks for the replies. I don't agree that someone else is involved. 1. she is home too much 2. If I were invovled with someone else I would take the steps to get the D started. I've known her long enough to see the depression in her. She's not sure that will make her happy in my opinion. If she does the work to get the process started I'll sign the papers, but I've worked to hard on this M to initiate D.
