Hi GAG, Reading along here and contemplating all the 'food for thought!' MHL's perspective is very interesting and his challenge offers alternative views which is exactly what we need.

Your own responses are also thought provoking as you apply the suggestions and challenges of posters to the 'real' scenario. It's only you that knows H and only you who really knows which actions sit most comfortably with you and are authentic to you.

When I read your $10 in the bank story it reminded me that we all have our story and it's this story that makes and shapes us as the people that we are.

Really just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and I have been following along.