How often is you wife affectionate, say ILY, initiates ML and filling your love buckets?
Is it that simple? I decide what I want and than do it? I assume that factors in how it would affect her and the R. I also assume I should consider what my intent is. Beyond that, you are right. I need to show more strength and courage, and be more fearless.
We're not doing so great in the intimacy department.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."