Zen, weekends are hard for a lot of us. The boards are slow, we have free time that we used to spend as a family, and our Ss temporarily remove us from the social connections we had as a couple. In my case, I tended to spend weekends at home at first (I was, and am still after 2 years, not ready to see H w/ any OW). Now, when I go out, I go to remote locations where I'm unlikely to run into H. This has actually made for some really interesting "field trips," and led to some more GAL activities. Try to be creative. Say "yes" when opportunities arise, even if -- no, especially if -- they are outside of your comfort zone. New experiences will be good for both you and your D!
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
