Robx is absolutely right. And it WORKED for him. He knows what he's talking about!!!
Competing with OM for your own wife?? That's ridiculous, weak, and it won't work.
Starsky
IAP - Put it this way. If you have the right mindset. There is NO COMPETITION with OM. The reason why, IS YOU ARE THE MAN. It's Her Loss. You're going to be just fine without her.
You will be telling her from a place of strength and not a script because someone tells you too. You do have some quick studying to do to get to that place where you can actually pull this off correctly.
Get strong IAP.
Start reading this entire thread. Very good read, but please note that there was some time that went by before he was at this place. Very motivational for you.