Only you know your situation the best. Your plan sounds good to me except perhaps for #5. I don't think calling H "just to chat' is a good idea. It can be seen as pursuing, even if it appears he enjoys it. It makes it seem like you can't let him go. Again, do what you feel is best but watch to make sure you're not being the pursuer. Give him the space he needs. If he wants to contact you, believe me he will.
Stay strong Zen!
"Love me when I least deserve it, for that is when I need it the most"
M18 Me39,H42 D16 Bomb 1/10 Moved out 3/10 OW 6/10 H wants to R,OW gone 11/10 H moves back 5/11 H wants to wear rings again 9/11