Keep pushing forward DD. I see you have 4 kids just like me. You had kids around the same age as we did as well. The timing in many cases is very common it seems.
ME/XW:47 S21, D19, S15, S14 M:21 T:26 W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12 W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline