Wife came over yesterday with Dog food and treats.
It went well. Both of us were pretty mellow.
She basically stayed down at the bottom of drive way til I invited her to pull up and come inside.
She definitely "looks" lost. Didn't interact with her that much as I didn't really have anything to say. Neither did she, but we did speak a little and it was all neutral.
Kind of nice when she left too, I didn't feel any overwhelming feelings like the last time. Last time she walked out of the home, 3 hours later I met OM.(2months ago?!! - Has it really been that long? wow)
I'm not a mind reader, but I do think something has changed in her. I'll just keep doing what works with no expectations of an outcome.
All I know is I'm going to be okay with or with out her.