Judo, this is the CB that everyone was warning you about. She is trying to push your buttons. Do yourself a big favor remove your self from the situation...take a day trip with your son, etc. and shut the text and the phone service or limit it if it is not nesessary.
Interesting day. I was out all night and came home this morning. She asked a bit about what I did last night in general, I avoided it, she has been treating me pretty nice.
Her communications pattern has changed to.. shes talking to her family more now. I was completely disinterested in her today also.
Oh I was invited to this pagan ritual by a friend of mind. I had never been to something like that and it was totally out of thte blue. I was talking to my wife earlier in the week adn had mentioned I might go. She laughed and teased me. Pagan stuff is somethign shes into but she never thought I'd go. It hurt me at the moment but I didnt think much of it.
AS the week progressed she kept asking if I really was going to go. Eventually last night was the day and I had a lot on my plate I thought I was just going to skip it. Then she sked me again.. are you really going to go?
I played it cool but i realize then how much of an affect it had on her. I was initially going to go for me and to try somethig new.. but once I realized how much she had been affected by it I decided I wasn't going to skip it. I told her I wasnt sure.
Then I dropped my son off at a frined and went. The ritual was cool and everyione was nice. I got home to get ready to go out with some friends after and she grilled me with questions about it. She was super curious and excited.
I talked to her about it while I gto ready to leave. Then once I was ready I just left. She was in bathroom. I didnt say goodbye or anything so she would have to discover I was gone when she got out.
Today she mentioned shewas up till 3:30 and asked a indierctly what time I got home as she had no idea. 330 is very late for her. I didnt answer and avoided it.
I don't know what any of this means but its very obvious that she's having some reactions to my new behavior. Who knows where it will go but its good to see that I can have some affect on her.
No, they just did this ritual about death/endings and renewal. Circle of life stuff. I just approached it from the view point of it being another way for people to focus their minds on something.
I'm an atheist but I can appreciate others POV as well.
Do you get to wear kilts and fly the flags of the seven Celtic nations?
I saw a band called "Need Fire" play, shopped for swords, kilts, celtic handcrafted items and seriously pondered actually eating haggis. I offered to pay my wife 10 bucks to eat some, but she wouldn't do it when I told her what it was
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bump for thoughts on the pagan thing and her change in behavior..
Also this morning she started pressing me about money. I had told her I would split stuff after bills but I haven't done that yet. I have given her some money though. She bugged me about buying stuff before that. I reminded her it was my paycheck.
