I wrote my husband a letter explaining that I know I need to work on me and get over mty depression over not having kids.
He read it and said that it was great, but it didn't influence him much. He said that it's been a long time coming, but he just doesn't feel the way about me that he used to.
I tried to tell him about marriage over the long haul, about ups and downs, about how love is work and you need to nurture it.
He just kept saying that he doesn't feel the same. He loves me, but...
I know I am supposed to get a life. I am working on that. I just feel so uncomfortable around him that it is hard to pretend I am okay. I was doing really well, but last night I broke down and told him he was breaking my heart and I cried. That made him sad and made him tell me he loves me.
I don't want to guilt him into staying. I don't want to logically convince him.
Do I just ignore him and do the get a life things?
