Pulled out some statements from H's last email.....
I can’t see my daughter because of you
You think you have a right to use D against me... To hurt me
You think that you are perfectly justified...
YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO THIS!
YOU ARE SO INCREDIBLY UNREASONABLE!!
Because of some issue YOU have I can’t be there!?
Wow that's lot of blame in one email...isn't it?
This article explains it a bit
Always Putting the Blame on Others. For some people, the first reaction to a problem is to find someone to blame. Blaming is a defense mechanism to avoid taking personal responsibility for the situation. The blamer rapidly finds fault in the other person and criticizes them. People who blame others or situations without taking responsibility for their contribution to the problem never get the sense of satisfaction of growth. By refusing to see their own errors, they lose the opportunity to change the very aspects of themselves that keep them stuck.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
