To answer a couple of questions. She isn't involved with anybody else. Her complaints were that basically that she reached out to me years ago for reassurance and I didn't respond now I have been and it's too late. My thought now is if she wants D why is she leaving it up to me to do all the work when I'm not the one seeking it. I don't beg, plead. I do my own thing and don't bother her about what shes doing.I don't bring up R talks. I've been on the look out for a house so I don't miss out on what I'm after.But my L said not to move out at this point.
