oops- kml, I think the guy was into you but also into other women as well.
nod...this is pretty common from what I understand. not all men like juggling women though. both men who I dated recently made it really clear that they didn't want to be multidating once things got to a certain point.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Well, that's all very interesting.... But right now the question is, with a blue chamray shirt, jeans or khakis. Lunchtime. But take into account I am in Southern Arizona, which is about as casual as it gets.
I'm inclined to think that if you don't at least feel the strong urge to be physical right from the first, "it" probably osn't there. Depending on how important that is to you I guess would determine whether an LTR would work from there.
But right now the question is, with a blue chamray shirt, jeans or khakis.
Definitely the jeans if they show off your assets.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Kml... Kissing is good for the soul, kissing is one of the great joys in life.... If I had more kissing@ home I might not ne a nearly WAW! I think one of my problems with my H is that I did not feel that urge to kiss him right away. After 20 years and virtually no sex ... Definitely would pick a man I wanted to make-out with from the get go!!
Oldtimer, I am very pleased to hear of your exceptions!
Those that have read my thread know that I am not anti- making out or sleeping with someone I barely know.
I can't wait to have chemistry with someone again--it was pretty fun but definitely messed with my head because I just really wanted to see that person as soon as possible and couldn't be all relaxed about the whole thing.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
** I work hard at a job that I adore and like to relax with a good book, movie, or quiet dinner (Italian, Chinese, Mexican.) I love Rock and Roll (put another dime in the jukebox, baby) R&B (no rap) Jazz, Soul, Classical, very little C&W. Honesty and loyalty are very important to me and I would like to meet someone who feels the same. A great sense of humor is a must, as well as a positive attitude. Please do not bother contacting me if you are married, "separated", "my wife doesn't understand me...." or anything other than completely free to pursue an honest, drama-free relationship. **
I get quite a few responses and went out with one guy a couple of times. Nice guy, but the chemistry just wasn't there.
Oh, and I never sent out any flirts or winks either unless the guy did first. I think that's fairly normal for women.
