1st thing. they say, we need to cool it my husband knows and I can't lose my kids over this. or I am not losing my career over this right now. or I have been through this with my first wife take some time to figure out what you want to do...
then. someone is driving by someone elses house and calling and hanging up and sending up smoke signals
and alot depends on who did the breaking up and what the other person feelings are for getting put on hold or dumped.
