Well, like I said, didn't have a whole lot of input from coach, 'cause I was blubbering the whole time like a lost schoolboy.

She wants me to change, do the unexpected, get myself together, compete with this OM, learn to read what W is really saying. Funny, after all these years, she seems like a stranger to me. Oh Yeah - ask her not to go.

Problem is it's only been a week since I stopped the pleading and letters. I emailed W asking her civilly not to go and told I would ask her face to face as the date 12/5 approaches.

Last night after a fun evening at HS football game w/friends (D16 is a flag twirler in band) W stayed up late slept on the couch. All this week she's been staying up till I am asleep or going to sleep before me, but at least we were in the same bed (for the kids I guess) I can't seem to read her.

Any similar experiences out there?

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."