XH is marrying OW after only 5 months of D!!

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I am hoping he has got the message. XH collected my sons last night and also needed to get some things that I agreed he could have.

It was the first time in months he has actually been inside our house and we actually talked to each other. OW was there, but stayed by the car and didnt attempt to interact with me. It was dark which probably helped as well.

I actually felt great as he was cordial to me and then mentioend that some things he wanted were missing. Instead of getting defensive as I normally would. I stayed in control and said to let me know via email what he thought was missing and I would get it to him. I totally controlled the situation, was pleasant and even made a lsight joke with him. I could see he didnt feel comfortable but it nice to not have a scene as usual.

I then shouted good bye to my sons and OW said good bye as well and I just ignored her.

I know it may seem so small but it just felt great to be in control and be queen of my castle.

I am hoping that this is the first of the time to come and that calm can now start to prevail. Well I can hope anyway.