This is why 100% no-contact, and complete transparency, is so important. Because even if she IS sincere, she will have a very difficult time pulling this off if OM doesn't respect it, or even if SHE has the sudden urge to re-contact him.

There is "willing," and then there is "able."

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)