Hey D4ML, I want to say I'm still reading but very, very involved with the D process and haven't posted much lately.
I am completely FASCINATED by the recent posts here--so much GOOD GOOD STUFF!!! I am thinking about how our deepest fears can be brought to fruition by US!
Really think on some of this advice here--a lot of posters give up very quickly because there is so much "dodging" on your part--you don't give too many straitforward answers and there is a lot of "reading between the lines" that people have to do. It takes a lot of effort. So people are discouraged, and you get to say "they left me--more abandonment??"
I only wish I had some of this kind of advice over on my thread--I hope you are realizing what a gift it is!!