WAW,,, wow

[Pensacolabroken]

Lost,
I agree. That is the current boundry we are at. She agreed to give me access to her phone, her email, her fb all of it.. I reciprocated, to show the trust.

We had a nice date. Dinner and we talked. She opened up about a lot of it and apologized for her actions and lies. She stated again she wanted to move forward and become stronger. She also told me she "broke" the contact with OM back in September except for the TKD classes and that she understands that they cannot continue in the same class any longer and why.

She was my same old friend and girl I married, but I was still cautious and remain so.

I think she has made HUGE progress and now I need to see if she backs it up with words.

Progress and Lost, I agree with your comments.

Robx, I think your advice to me is what started the catlyst she told me she lost her mind when I went out to dinner with my friend (female). that was what steered her out of her fog.

She is moving back into the bedroom today.


Kimmie, actions have consequences . I have set the boundries and she is respecting them. I think she may stop TKD when she gets level 2 Black Belt Passed. That has always been her goal.. she told me she is not sure how long she will remain with it, and that is different then 2 weeks ago.

4more, yea I deploy in Dec-Jan.. it will be a big test of trust.. you have to start somewhere...