Update Maybe i should have included this in initial info she has maintained need for seperation, but takes no aggressive action to move out and gets upset when I say fine go, to see if it will work out has not asked for a divorce that always brings a negative response. The experiment a hug offer : result hug given reluctantly but not super resistant her verbal response "I'm alright" before hug,....her body language..no squeeze just there after hug distressed look in eyes. This is also at late bedtime after a hard days work for her.In the end will it matter? I think I need to go dark with the exception of her checking on the kids this week. Does anybody have any thoughts?
5 Children 15y m 23yrs friends ea/pa bomb dropped mid sept 2010 Where we end up I don't know.