For you to rise above your feelings was not only very heroic but I'm guessing may not even have been attempted if your upbringing had not modeled the commitment of marriage to you.
Thank you. Yes, it was very hard for me. I do owe so much to the way I was raised, my Church, and what I learned here on the board. The first book I bought after I decided to R, was Love Must Be a Decision. Man,that was tought.....lol. It hit me every way I turned.
When you've been bathed in those PEA chemicals from the brain, it's hard to come down from that and agree to make a decision to love your S. But that was right for "my" situation. If I had waited on the feelings to rush in, we wouldn't have made it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
