Like, What goes through your mind when your spouse asks for sex? depends on the day, if he's been horrid and nasty then I jsut don't want a bar of it, but to keep the peace I almost always do.
What goes through your mind when you know you've hurt your spouse? I don't usually think of it as hurting hyim, not until todya when I've read everyones stories. Usually, it's me that feels hard done by.
Do you think about sex a lot? never. its something I'm goingt to work at tho.
Do you find other ways to satisfy the urges that you DO have? well, I don't have urges LOL and thats the problem, DH feels unloved because of this. I have taken to smoking a little weed, which helps me be very adventurous, I have no pain from arthritis, no one else exists, and I can let myself go. hubby has been very happy with this experiment LOL
