Newmama said: "kml...if you wanted something serious with the guy, you know that you wouldn't have made out with him! It sounds like you were looking (are looking) for a fling so making out in the parking lot is allowed with that kind of relationship. smile
Well I must say this...in hindsight, the guys I have dated since June- the ones who are "into" me contact me the very next day or the same night!"
Well - this guy DID contact me that very same night - there was a sweet email waiting when I got home. AND a sweet reply the next morning.
As for whether I would kiss a guy for five minutes in the parking lot on a first date if I wanted a real relationship with him? ABSOLUTELY! Gosh, why would I want a real relationship with a guy unless I was at LEAST that attracted to him??? I thought I showed admirable restraint, considering how cute and smart and funny he was, and such a good kisser too.