D5's soccer practice went well. Girls getting better and better. They just have 2 games left then season is over.
W came to practice with D2. We walked out together chatting for a few minutes. She told me she had been trying to call me to tell me about the movie she saw with her GF (Paranormal Experience II). Also told me about visiting her GF's house, which seems to be haunted. Eventually, she drove us to my car. D2 started melting down crying saying Mama! Mama! Mama! (she hates the transitions and has pretty bad separation anxiety now cause of the sitch). This caused D5 to start melting down also and then D9 to start yelling at both of them to be quiet. Grrr. W witnessed, perhaps some food for thought.
I came home and got D's settled down and into bed. About 9:30 pm W calls me, she's back from dinner with GF. Starts talking to me about random stuff and vice versa. I practice my best listening techniques. We talked about 30 min. She actually said some positive things about me.
She tells me that she told her GF that I had spearheaded giving a memorial gift in honor of GF's late mom, that I had done it all. Said her GF said it was real sweet of me.
She mocked a young male co-worker of hers that went to Nordstrom's and got Max Concealer to cover up some pimples for a wedding he was going to with his girlfriend. Said that [my pet name] would never do something like THAT.
She confided something in me about her GF making me swear not to tell anyone.
We laughed at each other's jokes/stories
She tells me she wants me to come to her work when all the cast of characters are there so I can meet everyone (I've never visited her at her work). I say when would be a good day for you to take me out to lunch? She suggests a day next week.
Then she asks again if we will see each other at D's activities in AM.
Better than screaming R talk, but nothing resembling reconciliation.
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