Is it unreasonable of me to not to want to have him in the house when I'm not here? Opinions please....because I don't know how to handle this....what to reply to him....
Mila, has your L made a recommendation about this? If so, assigning responsibility for that decision to your L may take you out of that equation and redirect your H's anger.
Sorry you're back on the LBS hamster wheel. Ughhhhh!!!!!!!!