Warrior - I like your conspiracy theory...that's really what it feels like....the whole world is against him including me and I'm the unreasonable one and once he gets that in his head how do you convince him otherwise....should you even try....read on what happened tonight....and tell me what to reply to him because I'm starting to think that I'm the crazy one...
Glam - I did try to defuse the situation and was very calm...told him that I don't want to be talked to this way....but still it upset my whole day....was thinking....who is this man and what happened to my sweetie and what did I ever do to him to deserve this?....I know the answer but still...so sad...and there is nothing I can do about it.
Anyway, the story of today continues....I was just leaving to go to see my lawyer and D said that H wants to come over. I said that I'm leaving so he can't (I established this boundary long time ago, that it's OK for him to come when I'm at home with notice, but not when I'm not, did that because he thought at the time that he had the right to come and go as he pleases, he conformed but never liked it). So I told D that she should go to his house instead...she said that she didn't feel like it. I though that that was that.
Went out and when I came back I found email from H
WHY CAN’T I SEE MY DAUGHTER TONIGNT IN HER ROOM !!! JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT HOME!!?? YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO THIS! WHAT ARE YOU WORRIED ABOUT, THAT I AM GOING TO LOCK HER UP AND GO INTO YOUR OFFICE!?
YOU ARE SO INCREDIBALY UNRESONABLE!!
On one hand you tell me you are worried about me, and on the other hand I can’t see my daughter because of you.. Because of some reason you think you have a right to use ******* against me... To hurt me.... And on the top of that you think that you are perfectly justified...
She is not feeling well and we wanted to study together, and because of some issue YOU have I can’t be there!?
I'm very upset about this....Am I the unreasonable one? Is it unreasonable of me to not to want to have him in the house when I'm not here? Opinions please....because I don't know how to handle this....what to reply to him....
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