That is very helpful Kansha. The thing I find hardest is to listen....two days ago my H wanted to talk and started with saying that is EA is now feeling guilty about ripping our family apart, and that its is not her fault. i couldn't help myself, I had to say something. I should make it my mantra: shut up, shut up, shut up and listen!
yesterday, my boss told me that I was slacking. I felt so bad for letting the team down and letting her down, but I am just human and hurting. But I couldn't help but be bitter, think about what H is doing to me, destroying me. Sgain, reading your post makes me realize its not personal, he has to get over his MLC. He used to be such a responsible H and Dad.
W=49 H=44 D= 11 M=12 going on 13, T= 16 Bomb = June 26, 2010
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
