That may be what you are looking for, I haven't read it yet, just have the link. Please be careful though. Dating before you have finished grieving your old relationship is full of pitfalls. It can also keep you from making a decission about your current hurting relationship with a clear head.
My personal decision is not to date or put myself in any situation that might lead to a R untill this R is fully decided, grieved for, and healed. I want my next relationship to be amazing, though I do hope my "next" relationship is with my H!
In the meantime, I go out with friends, chat here, and do things I enjoy. Going all out for a massage on occasion helps too.
