Oh I've definitely noticed the not playing fair side of her. We still have not talked much... Actually she just called to talk to kids, but called after they were put to bed... She had sent me an email saying she would call much earlier, but just said she forgot and she'd been busy at work. I only said I had put them to bed already.

My lawyer did not seem to hip on the idea of me having the kids so much and paying her too, but as I said earlier I can have them 75% of the time and pay her or have them 25% of the time and still pay her. I like the deal... Financially unfair that she gets money at all, but I MUST have my babies as much as possible regardless of the cost. I wish she wasn't rewarded for hardly being a parent, but hey I'm confident I'm walking away a winner.


Me:39 W:31 M:8
D6,3,19mo S5
I filed D 07-2010