Wife's EA/PA how to handle changing situation

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I think I have pushed past pursuing i figured on only answering her calls when the kids were home and having them hang up as well. Did a 180 tonight went out with the kids before she went to work. I alwasys made sure we were here to say good by. There seem to be some chips in here armor. Tiny chips however i am still cautious preparing for the worst hoping for the best. I was only considering flowers mid week therefore no conversation avoiding inadvertent R discussion. Did 180 at counseling made her take the lead. I have backed way off and its a strange place to be. Thanks for posting.