Thanks punkin. Plan on having a GREAT one - heading to Nashville with Ds and besties!
Rough night with S last night. Caught him in lie - happening a little too frequently lately. Let H know that girls and I headed out of town and that S would be staying with oldest Ds boyfriend. H responds "glad he has someone to turn to..." I will admit that I was disappointed that H didn't respond differently - "hey could S stay with me - this would be a good opportunity for us to hang..."
I have a feeling that your h, even at this clouded time has to have heard himself say that out loud. It may well bother him later on...we hope. Was your h asked to have him? Any reason you did not ask? The son is HIS/YOURS, right?
Please know - I'm just venting.
Sorry for your boy. As much as you can, privately ask H about more support emotionally, for your son FROM h. If h then says no, when he's been clearly asked, you'll discover more than if you mind read, or expect him to.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
