Wife's EA/PA how to handle changing situation

[Grocerykartman]

Not to question you here, but where is she going and why? Are you without a doubt certain OM will not be involved?

Regardless, I would not send her a flower. Maybe A (single) phone call in midweek (if you truly think there is no funny business going on during this week) would be ok, but don't do it as a reminder that you still care. Do it because you simply want to fill her in on something legitamitely, or because you will need to talk to her, say about the kids or something. I think you need to have better reasons than "I miss you" or with the intent of reminding her, otherwise, it will probably come across like you are pursuing. Kind of like holding on loosely.