W called 3 or 4 times today. I ignored all of them (no msgs). Then she texted me our pet name for D2 (and nothing else). I guess I'm gonna see her in an hour if she comes to soccer practice for D5.

Had my IC appt. One strange (counter-DB) thing that IC suggested I do is if she said something to me where she sounds hurt (I felt abandoned when you....) to validate it, apologize for the behavior and THEN to say "I MISS YOU."(to try to help connect). Seems to counter-DB to me it's crazy. Thoughts from others?

Me-53
W-49
D22,D18,D15
T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
She Moved Out-5/28/2010
Piecing start-04/2011
Now-together
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