well it is very fast. i dont know what she is thinking. All i know is she has said she will be honest and truthful, she will be transparent with all. I will tell you when I got home tonight, dinner was made, there was a list of places in the town I live in where she applied for a job and she gave me her cell phone showing 5 text messages from OM asking her where she was, where she spent last night and telling her to call him. She told me she didnt respond and that we would call him tomorrow together so she could tell him that it was over and they could not ever talk again. Her friend is planning on picking up her stuff for her tomorrow as well.
I am excited about this whole turn of events. I am not showing it to her and I am asking for advise. I have been all over the place here, and I am wanting to listen to what you guys say.
She is saying the right things and doing the right things for me, especially showing me the text messages. I will keep my head and let her prove to me that this is what she wants. She is going to stay at her brothers starting Sunday night when her regular visitation with the kids is done. She wants to be at the home on tuesdays and thursdays and take the kids to school and cook dinner ect. She wants to spend her visits as a family. She wants to spend wednesday nights and whatever time i can on the weekends with me.
I have committed nothing, i have said we will see how this weekend goes and i have arranged for MC next week. If i am way off base here, i will listen. She just seems to have read the book on what to do and say to me!