Just a few tips, but you will get more. One, stick to just one thread to explain your situation. If you need to add info to your own post, just reply. You will get more responses that way.
The people on this board are great and you will find a lot of support. I don't make it over here much since I moved over to MLC, but I pop in once in a while.
Sounds like you are in crisis mode and need to take some emergency measures to get stablized. Can you give a bit more info on what is going on?