Another guy's perspective here which agrees with everyone above. If I am interested in someone who has given me every indication that they are interested in me (which you have clearly done), then I don't wait to make arrangements for the weekend. I would have suggested something for this weekend as soon as you gave me the opening.
He's either not into you as much as you think or he has an "availability" problem that he's not letting you know about, i.e. either other irons in the fire or he is (God forbid) married.
WHY is eHarmony matching me up with men who are 12-17 years older than me?! I don't feel like a grandma, and I don't want to date a grandpa! I think they ran out of men (!)
I have also found that the same guys have signed up on all the dating sites. You get thrown together again and again even if one of you has previously said not interested!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Ladies...I don't think these dating sites are all they're cracked up to be. The best way to meet people is in real life. I know it's not as quick but it's so easy to accept/reject people based on what they write or how they look as opposed to who they are. It's like mail ordering by checking the options you desire.
If you have an activity that you enjoy (dancing, hiking, biking etc) join one of those through meetup.com and see. BTW, the cool guys ride fast bikes, most are divorced who love adventure, outdoors and want to live life to the fullest- I'm just sayin'
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
It's driving me crazy that my posts are not going through.... I'm not breaking the rules, and I don't plan to!
Kat, just so you know, it seems a lot of the same women show up on multiple sites, as well!
There are certainly advantages to meeting people in real life, but it isn't always as easy as falling off a log, either! I think there is probably a balance to be struck. It doesn't make sense to me to totally shut off any potential avenue for meeting people, the pool is a lot smaller than it was when we were 20-somethings!
Violin - the makeout session was yummy. Hence my disappointment that he's not jumping to repeat it, despite his apparent great enthusiasm in discussing it!
BA - not married, pretty darn sure of that. But he could have lots of more age-appropriate dates lining up, I suppose, and I could be Plan B. Then again, he IS an engineer, he could just be clueless in that way they often are, lol.
Ah well - I've been summoned to an extra band practice tonight anyway. And I'll find someone else to go with me to the concert tomorrow. And Sunday I am hosting book club. And so far Mon Tues Wed and Thurs night next week are spoken for. He snoozes he loses!
