Oh, they do have consequences, alright. They have both intended and unintended consequences.
It's easier to see the problem if you flip it around to focus on her as if she were coming here for advice.
If she came here and said she had an affair with her TKD instructor, and now her husband wants a divorce, but she wanted to save her marriage, but she wasn't willing to give up going to that martial arts studio, what would you tell her?
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-