Tony, God forbid! No I don't think he is having an affair. His LD was brought about by illness/medication that he still is on. He did go to his Doctor Tuesday and got a different kind of medication to try to put the Chrone's in remission. Some of the medication he takes has sexual side effects which seems to always mean that the sex drive goes down.
That is why this is so hard on me. Geez Wiz! We used to have a great sex life. It was the glue that held us together when we would have liked to have killed each other. When we felt like killing each other (and there was lots of that!) we made love instead. We were the original make love - not war couple.
He did tell me that I should be more understanding about his condition and that if it were reversed he would have to suck up too and that I am making him feel bad about something that he can not help.
I feel like a witch sometimes with a capital B.
I can tell you though if I caught him having an affair I would have a hemmorrage! We have always said to tell the other in that case - don't hurt and humiliate - speak up if there is that type of problem.
He has always been a man's man. Loved to hunt and fish, scuba dive, ect. I have always thought he was the sexiest thing in the world and still do. I met him almost 25 years ago and I still think he is the sexiest thing I have ever seen and he was/is as GREAT lover. I just want back the lover that I had because it was a good thing.
I am sorry that your wife took a lover. That is a very hurtful thing that I don't know how someone could get pasted. I hope you find all the happiness in the world because you sound like a hoot. Some of your post are a scream!
