I agree with you most of the time, but the romance level of an affair and reconnecting with the father of your children just isn't the same. The decision to work on your marriage is not based on hormones. The decision to have an affair is.
My experience is that hormones played a huge role in our reconciliation. It's amazing when you realise the power of catnip.
I would not call it huge, Cat Whisperer. There was a hell of a lot more going on than hormones. Greek
I understand how you could see it that way.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.