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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Steve McQueen #2101819 11/05/10 07:57 PM
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You lost them for good


I disagree, as would many others and their spouses.


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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Steve McQueen #2101820 11/05/10 07:58 PM
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Steve,

Women are not the only creatures on God's earth that have a right to change their mind.

Thus:

"Wife, I realize that I told you that I had no problem with you talking to this other man, but it's clearly gotten beyond that -- even if only by him -- and I've decided that I've changed my mind. It's not appropriate, and I'm not going to live in a marriage with a third person in it."

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Starsky309 #2101829 11/05/10 08:03 PM
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Women are not the only creatures on God's earth that have a right to change their mind.


And thank Goodness for that because... you'd want to stick to a foolish decission just because of a need to be inflexibly consistent.

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
TimeHeals #2101830 11/05/10 08:04 PM
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I mean "who'd" not "you'd"--geez, dang edit button, grumble.

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
TobyTess #2101838 11/05/10 08:10 PM
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Frequency of sexual intimacy fell from twice or thrice daily consistently over the couple of years B4 he was born to now perhaps once monthly
Red Flag 1


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Earlier this year her ex from 30 years ago got back in touch. He was her first love and ended their 6 month relationship
Red Flag 2, Red flag 3 and red flag 4


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Their growing friendship..He is primarily seeking a mental connection that he does not find with his wife
red flag 5, red flag 6 , red flag 7

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They met up...Now they want to meet up out of town to see a film, stay overnight
red flag 8 red flag 9 red flag 10

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His wife knows nothing of these meetings past and planned.
REd flag 11

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I have expressed my discomfort at this escalation but my wife is angry at `not being trusted'.
red flag 12 red flag 13 red flag 14

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My wife swears that she loves me and that she has never looked at another man.
Red flag 15

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This has all been OK with me. Just about.
Red flag 16

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Ready2Change #2101840 11/05/10 08:12 PM
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My question to you:

How many red flags will you put up with?

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Ready2Change #2101850 11/05/10 08:24 PM
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R2C:

whistle

Classic.

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Starsky309 #2101855 11/05/10 08:33 PM
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I get the feeling we might not see Toby again for a while. confused

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Coach #2101858 11/05/10 08:37 PM
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Good eyes Coach...


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

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Re: My LSD wifes growing friendship with her ex
Coach #2101862 11/05/10 08:41 PM
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I get the feeling we might not see Toby again for a while. confused


Just remember, others are watching:

Views = 365

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