Doesn't matter to them how much the kids miss us. They are in a selfish mode. They are absolutely torturing the kids and think nothing of it. No use trying to convince otherwise. W's sis told me (when she contacted me to complain about me), "We (W and siblings) were happy and our parents were happier once they got divorced. We were all much better off." That's just it, they learned the behaviour as a good thing to do.
Hello! Has she looked at her family? They all run away from their M's. And they aren't better off - its a farce.
She's helping W revise our history.
W was probably just staying close with me after she left to keep me as an option in case something else didn't come along. Who knows? But as soon as something else showed interest there she went. Thing is he's divorced from infidelity in his first M. And this is who she wants to trust?
Glad you found your posse. I'm still looking for mine.
You know the feeling - how you constantly feel like your going to wake up and realize it was all a nightmare. Then you break down again when you realize its not. Just got to keep trying everyday to move on and GAL. Keep a photo of D3 in front of all the time to know why I do it.
