Starsky, when she quit her job and asked to come home last time, i told her I needed to think about it and took a week. She then went back to OM.
So to be honest, I really didnt have that card to play this time. I am not letting her move back inthe home, she knows it will be a rough road and she has a lot to do.
the thing here is, she is broken. She has ruined her life, she has no job, run out of money and will be sponging off of friends to survive.
I know i cant pick up the pieces for her, she has to do that on her own and at the same time show that she is committed to our marriage. But i am not going to turn my back on her either. This is what I have wanted all along. I am not going to rush it. I am going to continue with my personal growth. I will make her visits with the kids easier, by letting her stay at the house for the weekend. Her brother is offering her a place to stay.
