No need to have a whining contest. I agree with you. I am not trying to say that a person has to be exactly the same as on their wedding day. I expected a gradual decline in sex and intimacy. That means going from having sex everyday to having sex 2-3 times a week, and still having LOTS of desire. I never dreamed that after 2 years and some kids, that the decline would be 100%. Heck, my sexaul desire has not tapered off at all! It might actually be higher.
Quote: People change and grow all their lives.
I expected this, but this should be aimed at growing and changing positively. Losing your sex drive is a GOOD change? Seem to me that is heading in completely the WRONG direction.
Quote: I don't think it is the changing that bothers you so much. It is the fact that she changed and refuses to meet your needs AND SHE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT THAT. The not caring will tear a person up inside
I agree 100% with this. Her dismissing my needs really shows a lack of compassion.
Also honeypot, I was not trying to lessen the impact on HD women. I think in many ways you have it harder because society really truly does not understand LD men. I know I sure don't. I can never get away from sexual thoughts, THEY ARE ALWAYS THERE 24/7.
