CeMar;

Well isn't that an interesting point you make:

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How could a person make ANY kind of decision on whom to marry if it is all a LIE?




CeMar, let's say it all was a lie? Not intentional, mind you, but a lie nonetheless. What now?

What if all those books you've been reading make sense to you, but they just don't help? What then?

What you are saying to me is, "I'm doing everything the books tell me to do. I've been doing it all right, but nothing is happening!" You are correct. Your spouse isn't changing into what you want her to be.

Now what?

Corri