The problem I see here is that all of you lovely ladies have been telling me that the solution is to meet HER needs, just like I was doing early in our relationship. THe books all say the same thing to, DO the things you did when you were courting. We all spend far more time early in a relationship meeting the needs for affections, time together, conversation, etc. So I am getting confused here. I, the HD man, am supposed to romance her like I used to, to in effect be MORE man then I ever was. But the LD women, she should be allowed to change into whatever she wants and no longer needs to meet MY needs?
So what is the point of courtship then, since it no longer matters what you are like since we are all going to CHANGE irregardless of what the spouse wants? How could a person make ANY kind of decision on whom to marry if it is all a LIE?
