The cool part is we both have the same end goal, a stronger LBS, and the abilty to be in a healthy relationship, no matter what relationship that is, wife or someone else.
I like the fact that we have different approaches. Options.
And while we disagree, it is respectful.
I sit here hesitant, about 5 minutes now, trying to phrase this in a way that is not seen as an attack.
Last night I was reminded that us older guys here want to impart our advice and for that advice to occur like turning on a light switch. Man up, get self respect, set a boundary.
We tend to forget how long it took us to get to that place where we, ourselves could do that.
That was not an attack.
I know that I know what the goal is, and I want the guys I believe I am helping to get there as quickly as possible, I tend to forget that it took me a long while to figure it out even with others telling me.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
