Future, I have a question for you if you don't mind. Why does your MC advise you to not disregard your W, etc.? Is it to keep a civil relationship with your W for the sake of your children or is it to keep things friendly with your W to possibly keep the door open for the M in time? Just wondering. I ask because I wonder if keeping things friendly with my W is still the way to go or just be extremely distant.

Wishing you the best.


M 38
WAW 36
Together 19 years
Married 12 years
Bomb/Separated Oct. 09
I love my wife
Sitch